Matthew 1:18-25

Intro: Every year during this season, we hear much about the various characters of Christmas. People like Mary, the shepherds and the wise men.

Who didn’t even show up until a couple of years later!   Even the sheep, donkeys and turtle doves are portrayed and the event is re-enacted year after year.

I won’t even mention all the modern additions we have made to the Christmas story, some of whom are more real to our children than Jesus Himself!

One fellow, namely Joseph, is treated merely as an extra. He shows up in the Christmas program, but he brings no gifts, he sings no songs and he makes no speeches. He just stands there in his sandals and his robes, watching the scene unfold around him.

I am convinced that Joseph possessed certain elements in his life that make him stand out as The REAL Hero of Christmas. The characteristics that are evidenced in this man’s life teach us how we should go about the business of serving God, even if it is an unsung hero of the faith.

Let’s look in on this scene from Joseph’s life and see what it is that makes this man stand out as a hero in this story.By the way, those elements that were active in the life of Joseph can make us useful to the Lord too, if they are found in our lives!


18. Now the Birth of Jesus Christ was on this wise: When as His Mother Mary was espoused (engaged) to Joseph, before they came together (before they were married), she was found with Child of the Holy Spirit (by decree of the Holy Spirit).

19 Then Joseph her husband, being a just man, not willing to make her a public example, was minded to put her away privily (to quietly break the engagement).

A. He Was A Consecrated Man – The Bible tells us that Joseph was a “just” man. This means that he was a man who lived for God. As far as the Law was concerned, Joseph was blameless. As far as his heart was concerned, he walked by faith in the Lord. He was a righteous man!

B. He Was A Compassionate Man – For just a moment, try to put yourself in Joseph’s place. You are betrothed to Mary, which is the same as a legal marriage, except there is to be no physical intimacy. All of a sudden, you discover that this woman is pregnant.Of course, you would think the worse. Yet, when Joseph hears all these things, instead of reacting in anger, he responds in love and compassion toward MaryHe seeks a way to sever their relationship without publicly humiliating Mary.

What he could have done – Deut. 22:23-24. The Law afforded Joseph the opportunity to have Mary put to death.

At the least, a public divorce would have left her destitute financially, and because of the baby, no man would have wanted to marry her.) Joseph just wanted to do what was right by Mary!Imagine how the Christmas story would have been altered had Joseph reacted differently!)

By the way, how we respond in a crisis reveals a lot about our character. When things are going smoothly we are able to hide a lot of things that become evident in a time of crisis

These two truths concerning Joseph’s character is a lesson for all those who want to be used by God. You see, God uses those who are clean.  He uses those who are tender hearted. Those who are available and submitted.

Of course, these were traits found in the life of the Lord Jesus Himself. Jesus was God, but as a boy, He saw godly behaviour modelled by his surrogate father Joseph.)

I. Joseph’s Character


 As Joseph deliberated the entire situation he found himself in quandary, THEN, the Lord spoke to him and placed a call on his life, like he had with Mary. WOW.

This great call to service was, spiritually speaking, a great call and one that would have honoured any man. However, from a purely human standpoint, it was a call that placed a great weight on this man’s shoulders and it was a call to bear a great weight of shame.

His was a call that involved three elements of revelation.

Just imagine here in Ireland, how did that happen, he must be mad.


1).  V.20 The Revelation Of A Person –

20 But while he thought on these things, behold, the Angel of the Lord appeared unto him in a dream, saying, Joseph, thou son of David, fear not to take unto you Mary your wife; for that which is conceived in her is of the Holy Spirit.

  1. The Lord’s call to Joseph was designed to help him deal with his hurts and fears.

The angel of the Lord told him plainly that this child growing in Mary’s womb was the Son of God.

The Lord was calling Joseph to be the surrogate father to the Messiah! WOW! What a challenge.

2).   V. 21 The Revelation of A Purpose 

21 And she shall bring forth a Son, and you shall call His Name JESUS (Saviour): for He shall save His people from their sins.

This verse tells us three very important things

  1. The child’s gender,
  2. The child’s name and
  3. The child’s purpose in life.

Joseph is told that this child will be The One Who will provide salvation from sin.

3).  V. 22-23 The Revelation Of A Plan –

22 Now all this was done, that it might be fulfilled which was spoken of the Lord by the Prophet, saying,

23 Behold, a Virgin shall be with Child, and shall bring forth a Son, and they shall call His Name Emmanuel, which

Then, Joseph is told that God is working out His eternal purpose in the lives of Mary and Joseph. God is going to bring to pass all the prophecies concerning the Messiah.

One of them been 742 years BC, in Isaiah 7: 14 Therefore the Lord Himself shall give you a sign; Behold, a virgin shall conceive, and bear a Son, and shall call His name Immanuel. (Without a doubt, this prophecy is one of the greatest, if not the greatest, in the Bible.

In Hebrew, the word “virgin” is “haalmah,” which means “the virgin — the only one that ever was or ever will be a mother in this way.”

The “Son” Who would be born would be the “Son of God.” The word “Immanuel” means “God with us.” Such was fulfilled in Christ.

This Prophecy was given by God as a rebuttal to the efforts of Satan working through the kings of Syria and Israel to unseat Ahaz. This is also a rebuttal to every unbeliever, every false teacher, every false religion. In other words, their efforts to make void the Promise of God given to David would come to naught.

God is using Joseph to be a part of His great plan! In all of this, Joseph is an example to other believers. When a crisis arose in his life, he sought the Lord’s face. Instead of reacting harshly and abruptly, Joseph reacted in faith waiting on the Lord for guidance and direction, and he was helped by God! Joseph’s call is also an encouragement to people like you and me. When we consider that Joseph was a humble character and that he was basically a nobody, it gives hope to you and me!

In my opinion, to be called to be part of God’s plan is an honour beyond compare and it is an honour shared by every child of God!

Read Paul’s assessment of the call to minister – (1 Tim. 1:12-16.)                            

I. Joseph’s Character

II. Joseph’s Call


When Joseph received his call from God, he altered all of his plans and put away all of his considerations and simply went and did what the Lord said to do.

Notice what the Bible says about Joseph’s conduct.)

  1. He Was Submissive –                      This is the #1 basic call for any believer

According to history, there were three theories surrounding Mary’s pregnancy. They are: 

A. The baby was Joseph’s.

B. The baby belonged to Mary’s secret lover.

C. Mary had been raped by a Roman soldier.

Any of these situations would have produced a situation that would bring shame on both Mary and Joseph.  

Yet, when Joseph went ahead and married Mary, most people probably assumed that she and Joseph had not been willing to wait until the appropriate time to consummate their marriage.

 Of course, there were some in that day who continued to call Jesus’ birth into question throughout His ministry – John 6:42;

 And they said, (Jews) Is not this Jesus, the son of Joseph, whose father and mother we know? (They did not believe the Incarnation, despite the fact that Jesus met every single criteria.) how is it then that He says, I came down from Heaven?

(Unbelief questions everything,

  Of course, all of this brought shame to the life of Joseph, but just like his adopted Son, he despised the shame and because of the joy that was set before him, he endured the cross!

In this, Joseph is a lesson for every person who wants to serve the Lord this  morning.

Our duty before the Lord is to humbles ourselves under God’s mighty hand, 1 Pet. 5:6;   Humble yourselves therefore under the Mighty Hand of God that He may exalt you in due time

 the Cross alone and one’s Faith in that Finished Work can make one humble), that He may exalt you in due time

 His Humility –  # 2 basic requirement F A C

James 4:6. 6 But He gives more Grace God resists the proud, but gives Grace unto the humble.  

Providing the Believer ever makes the Cross the Object of His Faith, by which Grace comes from the Lord. 

 Regardless of the call God places on our lives, there will be times when the world, the flesh and the devil will try to make us ashamed of who we are what we stand for.

Yet, we should submit ourselves to the will of God and bear His shame regardless of what it may involve!

B) 2. His Obedience –   # 3 basic requirement

Without quibbling or hesitation, Joseph did that which he had been commanded to do.

What a lesson for the children of God!                What an example for us today

Often the voice of God will come to us and we will debate with God and with ourselves and hesitate instead of responding in swift obedience.

Let us learn the truth that obedience to the Lord is far more blessed than anything else we can do for Him. 

And Samuel said,       1 Samuel 15:22-23    The story leading up to this, King Saul was told to fight the Amalekites and told to destroy everything,  no spoils, Saul disobeyed God`s command, He saved choicest women, choicest animals for sacrifice, and King AGAG for a public execution,

V 22 Hath the LORD as great delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices, as in obeying the voice of the LORD? Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, and to hearken than the fat of rams. 

For rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft, and stubbornness is as iniquity and idolatry.

Because thou hast rejected the word of the LORD, he hath also rejected thee from being king.

Obedience is what He desires and is one thing we can always deliver!

  • His Surrender      # 4 Basic requirement

Verse 25 tells us that Joseph was a man who was willing to place the will of the Lord ahead of his own rights.

He respected Mary’s virginity until after Jesus had been born! Even when it was inconvenient,

Joseph willingly laid aside his own rights so that he could honour the Lord!

What an example for you and me!

There are times when doing God’s will is not the easiest thing to do.

There are times when doing His will is not the most convenient thing to do.

However, doing His will is always the RIGHT thing to do!

We must come to the place where we lose our will to the will of God!

Let it be said that we are surrendered to the plan of God without reservation and without compromise!

Conclusion: Eventually, Mary delivered her baby. On that great night, Joseph did as he had been commanded when he took his Creator into his arms and called his name JESUS.               

The greatest statement he ever made,

What would be your greatest statement?          IT’S A QUESTION?

 Now, this year in Christmas plays and programs all around the world Joseph will take a backseat to shepherds, wise men, animals and other characters.

However, to me, this man stands out as the real hero of Christmas, because of the lessons he teaches us about obedience to God and surrender to God.

Let’s take these lessons from the life of Joseph and make sure the same characteristics are found in us,

Not just at Christmas, but every day of the year!


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Weekly Gem

Splendid sins!

“We know that a person is not justified by the works of the law, but through faith in Jesus Christ!” Galatians 2:16

See the uselessness of mere morality. Honesty, morality and such things may be very good among men. But all these things put together, without faith, do not please God.

Without saving faith, all moral virtues are but splendid sins!

You will as surely be lost if you trust to your good works, as if you had trusted to your sins!

Trust Jesus, and you are saved.
Trust self, and you are damned.

Unbelief nullifies everything!
It is the dead fly in the ointment!
It is the poison in the pot!

All the moral virtues,
all the benevolence of philanthropy,
all the kindness of unselfish charity,
–give no title to Divine acceptance, for “without faith it is impossible to please God.” Hebrew

Here is the greatest declaration ever heard in human history

JOHN 19:30

These are our Saviours dying words and what powerfully important words they are.
See how Christ’s words “It is Finished”, are filled with glorious victory.

They mean, ‘It is done, It is completed’
What is completed?
Redemption is completed.
He is saying that salvation has been obtained and accomplished! 

But how was Redemption finished?  By the doing and dying of the Lord Jesus Christ alone. 

He finished and fully completed the work He had been sent to do!
When we look at the tense of the Greek word ‘Finished’ we discover that it is in the perfect tense which means that although the action has been completed in the past, the results continue into the present. 

So, when Jesus cried out “It is finished,” he meant, “

It was finished in the past, it is still finished in the present and it will remain finished in the future.”
Listen to Paul as he tells the Hebrews of the Christ who finished His work,

Hebrews 1:3. Who being the brightness of his glory, and the express image of his person, and upholding all things by the word of his power, when he had by himself purged our sins, sat down on the right hand of the Majesty on high;”  
It is finished!
It is finished!  That means, Justice was satisfied and still is.
It is finished!  That means, the Father was satisfied and still is.
It is finished!  That means, the righteous demands of the law were satisfied and still are. 
It is finished!  That means, the Old Testament sacrifices were finished and remain so.
It is Finished ‘— what a wonderfully grand and glorious statement by the God/Man, the young Prince of Glory!
When a work is Finished, it is Finished … there is no need to add anything to it!  Neither man nor angel needs to augment it.  It is finished. 
And a good thing too.  Wouldn’t it be just dreadful if our salvation were based on any of our efforts?
We can’t rely on our efforts … they at best are incomplete.
We can’t rely on our service … we haven’t served God perfectly. We have left things undone.  There’s so much we should have done but haven’t and the clock is racing against us.
However, the Lord Jesus left nothing of our salvation incomplete! It Is Finished!
He did not partially save or partially ransom … It is Finished.
Everything He did for us, He did perfectly … It is Finished.
There is no one like Christ Jesus in any of the world’s great religions.                                                                                                       This one expression … IT IS FINISHED explodes and shreds every other religion on earth! They are all fakes. They are all useless.                                                                                                                                           With respect, Mohammed did not complete redemption for his people.                                                                                                           Buddha did not atone for His people                                                                       Only Christ Jesus ransomed, redeemed and reconciled us back to God.


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